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Your pleasure, upgraded: the best sex toys for women

From discreet designs to full-on power, there’s something for everyone

best sex toys for women

The best sex toys for women come in all manner of shapes, sizes, and budgets. And if this is your first foray into the world of assisted bedroom accessories, fear not. 

Today’s best sex toy options are well designed, thoughtfully engineered, and very clear about the experience they’re built to deliver – whether that’s subtle, luxurious, or gloriously over-the-top.

With that in mind, here’s our pick of some of the best sex toys for women. Oh, and feel free to check out our best sex toys for men, if you fancy.

best sex toys for women

1. Lelo Sona 2 Cruise

The Sona 2 Cruise proves that clitoral stimulation doesn’t have to rely on direct contact. Instead of traditional vibrations, it uses sonic pulses that stimulate without direct contact, which, for many people, translates into deeper, longer-lasting pleasure with less risk of overload.

The design is premium too – sculpted silicone, a reassuring weight, and the sort of finish that makes it feel more like a piece of tech than a novelty. Lelo’s Cruise Control feature subtly boosts power when pressure is applied as well, keeping intensity consistent right when it matters.

Fully waterproof and discreetly quiet, this is a refined, powerful, and compact bit of kit.


best sex toys for women

2. Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

The rabbit vibrator is a well-known classic, and the Greedy Girl leans hard into what makes the format work so well. This is layered stimulation done properly, with internal and external needs both taken care of.

The curved shaft is shaped for consistent G-spot contact, while the flexible ears that lend the rabbit moniker sit where they should, delivering plenty of clitoral stimulation. 

Dual motors and a wide spread of vibration combinations give you proper control over intensity and rhythm, instead of forcing everything into one overwhelming mode. It’s also soft, waterproof, rechargeable, and impressively quiet for something this powerful. 


best sex toys for women

3. Skins Rose Purrz Clitoral Toy

This small, matte-finished rose could comfortably sit on a bedside table or shelf without attracting any attention at all, making it perfect for those who value discretion.

Beneath its subtle exterior lies a clitoral stimulator, with a flat centre that delivers pulsing stimulation across multiple settings. It’s palm-sized, soft to the touch, and unintimidating in a way that makes it especially appealing if you’re new to toys – or simply prefer something that doesn’t announce itself.


best sex toys for women

4. Hitachi Magic Wand Waterproof

Very few sex toys can claim a true cultural legacy. The Magic Wand can. Originally sold decades ago as a muscle massager, it built a reputation for delivering deep, rumbly vibrations that quickly earned cult status. The name stuck, the design endured, and the Wand became an icon.

The waterproof version brings that history up to date with cordless convenience and full submersibility, making it ideal for bathroom play. Those who aren’t in the know would probably liken it to a massage gun, earning it extra points on the stealth front.


best sex toys for women

5. The Cowgirl Premium Riding Sex Machine

The Cowgirls is a Sybian-type sex machine – a ride-on device designed to deliver intense vibration and penetration. You’ll notice it’s rather large, and not subtle, and it isn’t pretending to be. Climb on, choose your attachment – a curved G-spot dildo or a clitoral cushion – and let the machine take over. 

Multiple vibration modes, speed control, rotation, remote operation, and app control mean it can also be hands-free, partner-controlled, or somewhere in between. It’s mains-powered too, so no need to worry about charging or batteries. An expensive, bulky, but powerfully decadent option.

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Esat has been a gadget fan ever since his tiny four-year-old brain was captivated by a sound-activated dancing sunflower. From there it was a natural progression to a Sega Mega Drive, a brief obsession with hedgehogs, and a love for all things tech. After 7 years as a writer and deputy editor for Stuff, Esat ventured out into the corporate world, spending three years as Editor of Microsoft's European News Centre. Now a freelance writer, his appetite for shiny gadgets has no bounds. Oh, and like all good human beings, he's very fond of cats.

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